Hello lfoley93,
I have some suggestions for you. As you read, please keep in mind that you asked for suggestions!
1. Buy two electric alarm clocks with loud, buzzing or ringing alarms. Place one across the room for you. Set it for three minutes after the alarm on the clock next to your bed rings. (You have to get out of bed to turn off the racket coming from the clock across the room.) Place the second new clock further from the bed than the other one. Set the second new clock for 5 minutes after the first one rings.
2. Instead of buying two electric alarm clocks, buy two clock radios; set the clocks to different times as above and set the dial on each the radio to different stations with obnoxious music and set the volume on high.
3. Learn as much as you can about DSPS. Put a bright lamp on a timer, place it near your bed and set it to go on when you have to be up.
4 Engage a wake up service--go ahead, spend your money--it's only money! Hire a gong and a gong player from a local orchestra or band. Instruct the player to hit the gong once and if you don't arise, to use the gong mallet on you! LOL!
5. Reset your circadian clock by getting to bed at a decent hour. Don't let yourself sleep late on weekends. Be consistent and persistent
6. Avoid booze--as well as the illegal recreational drugs, drink coffee sparingly, and that goes for chocolate too. They interfere with circadian rhythms. (If you use illegal drugs or drink too much alcohol, my heart will bleed sour vinegar for you.)
7. Vitamins and minerals are certainly beneficial. Do some reading first. Make sure you have adequate calcium and magnesium per day because you are female and need those minerals. The recommended daily amount (RDA) of calcium and magnesium seems to be adequate for most people, but the RDA of vitamins is pitifully low. Do some research first! Calcium and magnesium do seem to be beneficial to some people who have difficulty getting to sleep, but read about them first!
8. A glass of warm milk at bedtime will help you fall asleep providing you get to bed at a consistent, decent hour. (Milk contains tryptophane which is sleep inducing.)
9. Realize that it is still a "daytime world" which doesn't have much tolerance for night owls. Thanks to Ben Franklin we have a saying which reflects the values of our society: "Early to bed, early to rise, makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise." I have a coffee mug which says, "He who hoots with owls at night cannot soar with eagles in the morning." (FYI, no matter the amount nor quality of night time sleep narcoleptics get, we still experience unrelenting, overwhelming sleepiness during the day.)
10. In my opinion, NO pills for you! AVOID MEDICATIONS! Your problem--DSPS--is solveable without taking meds of any sort and that includes stimulants, antidepressants, and downers. You do not have my permission nor blessing to take any kinds of meds. DSPS doesn't require meds; it requires self discipline, some training about good sleep hygiene, and perhaps some help readjusting your internal circadian clock. We narcoleptics should be so lucky.
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11. Get some therapy with a good clinical psychologist who is knowledgeable about circadian rhythm problems.
A skilled psychologist can help you readjust your sleep cycle and/or help you find out what your real problem is. I don't recommend a psychiatrist.
12. Learn to listen to yourself: You wrote, "I have a really HARD time getting out of bed in the morning. I have lost SEVERAL jobs because of this. I can barely make a living." You have choice. You can continue on the path of failure which will destroy your self esteem and make you impoverished, or your can change your sleep habits. Deep down, you know what the cause of the DSPS is.
You continued, " It is so frustrating because I am an intelligent woman, capable of most anything once I am awake." This indicates to me that you don't have much of a problem staying awake during the day. I have no doubt that you are intelligent, now use your intelligence. Take control and learn how to readjust your sleep pattern.
You state, "I am just NOT DEPENDABLE." To whom are you confessing? Do you want my blessing to continue being not dependable? NO WAY. If you thought that persons with narcolepsy are not dependable and would therefore give you comfort and understanding, you are wrong. Once diagnosed, the majority of persons with narcolepsy are dependable and responsible because we have learned alternative techniques in addition to sacrificing our personal lives and relationships to the world of work. NOT DEPENDABLE? That is a choice you have made.
If you aren't aware of it, DSPS is an insomnia of sorts. I'm curious to know why you would post your message on a narcolepsy list. Narcoleptics do not have insomnia even though you might think otherwise about our "interrupted night time sleep." (It isn't insomnia; it is part and parcel of narcolepsy. It certainly is NOT the cause of our excessive daily sleeping.) I won't elaborate here about the various symptoms of narcolepsy, but I will tell you that persons with narcolepsy are not difficult to arouse from sleep. We respond to alarm clocks and other external stimulii. You have no idea how fortunate you are. Your sleep disorder is "curable;" ours is not.
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Go read!
It is entirely possible that the sleep disorder center where you had your sleep study done has erred. If it wasn't a certified sleep disorder center, the chance for error increases. Be observant; keep a "sleep journal." Talk with your doc and/or a clinical psychologist. You could have another kind of sleep disorder or clinical depression.
I've been straight with you. I sincerely hope this info helps. I wish you sweet dreams.
Nancy Valencia
Old, experienced, knowledgeable, practicing narcoleptic
I have a really HARD time getting out of bed in the morning. I have lost SEVERAL jobs because of this. I can barely make a living. It is so frustrating because I am an intelligent woman, capable of most anything once I am awake. I am just NOT DEPENDABLE. I turn off my alarm and don't even know that I am doing it. My Dr. suggested putting me on ritalin in the a.m. when my alarm goes off. Has anyone ever heard of this?? Any suggestions?? Has anyone had any luck with vitamins? I will try almost anything! I have had a sleep study done and it doesn't show anything other than delayed sleep phase syndrome.